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How to Change Your Life?

3/10/2013

 
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So many choices so little time. Too much indecision leads to fewer possibilities as time goes by. What does it all mean? What is the key to making changes in your life?

There are three key things we all can do to change to the lives we want and value. Simply stated,there are three steps. First you must mindfully accept where you are at. Second, you must decide where you want to go and visualize it. Third, you must act. Starting has amazing power and leads to the next step, and the next and so on. That is called Success!


Now, let´s take a closer look at each of the three steps.

To accept where you are at mentally, physically, socially and financially is the true starting point for all successful journeys of change. You must do this. For example, if I argue with my partner every day, I must see the situation for what it is. I won't make any progress if I deny it. This is not about judging or criticizing myself. It is about having the right information to make a decision from. To be mindfull and accept your reality is power information not weakness.

Once you accept where you are you have the information you need to decide where you want to be. So when I say to myself that I often argue with my partner; that is where I am. Where do I want to be? I decide that I want a life where my partner and I are happy, we communicate peacefully and have found the love again. That is my goal.

How can I get that happier and better relationship with my partner? I see that I can get help from a life coach or marriage counselor, I can read a book, speak with a friend or take a Relationship Skills course. Maybe I will do all four; where will I start. "I know! I will speak with Paul and read that marriage book. Then I will speak with my partner and we can take that Relationship/Marriage Skills course. Afterwards we can get some coaching."

Last step. Take action, start moving. So I will phone Paul and go over and speak with him. On the way over to Paul´s house I will buy the book. Before I go over to Paul´s I will make an appoinment with my wife to talk about things, us. I will ask her to enroll in the course with me.

Best of luck to all of you who want to make life changes. The process is the same no matter what you want to change.®

Get started now, and take action. Live, Love and be Happy, Marianne and Bob


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    Bob and Marianne own SteppingStoneLifeCoaching.
    Marianne, a Norwegian, is a Certified Life Coach, former Conflict Resolution Counsellor. She has also studied five years at the University of Stavanger.

    Bob has over 12 years experience as a life coach, career and business counsellor. Bob also worked for some years as a strategic policy analyst. He has a Masters in Public Administration and also worked as Business Consulting Services Manager in Canada. 

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