I received some questions about these two factors. " Why," said one reader, "would you say that these two points are important in communications?"
The reason for the first factor is very simple, but not so obvious. In order to change something you must change your thoughts, beliefs and behaviours. To get somewhere different or better you must have some idea of where you want to go or be. You must have a goal. Your results will change when you change your attitude, thoughts and behaviour.
Remember, we have an Art of Communication Class coming up in Sandnes, Norway. Here you will learn how to make those changes and learn new techniques that lead to better job performance and better relationships.
The last factor, personal responsibility for your thoughts and behaviour, is quite clear now that the necessity to change has been explained. Someone else cannot do that for you even under force. Ultimately it is you that always has a choice. Sometimes the choices are not easy, but they are there. The other thing that often gets forgotten is commitment and power. If you blame others or assume it is others responsibility to decide for you, you will not be commited to getting the results. In other words your motivation will be lower. You also give away your power when you do not assume responsibility.
Claim your power,be understood and get motivated by learning the Art of Communication.
The upcoming Art of Communication Class will be teaching the techniques for better communication skills. With these new skills your job performance will improve, your work environment will change and the quality of your family life and even sex life can change for the better. Everything between people starts with communication. Better communication gives better results. And - bad communication gives bad results.®
Live long, be mindful and prosper, Marianne and Bob